Men! You currently have a very bad wrap with the women. So let's fix that huh? He's the true mancode for dates or dances
1) DON'T try to impress. She went on the date because you have a shot so don't mess it up by not being yourself. Have fun on the date. That's what she's after.
2) If something goes wrong schedule wise don't panic. As long as you tell her what's up it'll be ok. But if you say 7:00 and you get her at 8 without a notice she'll be mad she's been ready for an hour.
3) Always have the day planned. And backup planned. Manage the amount you'll spend. That way things can run smoothly. This part could take weeks prior but that's worth it.
4) If you make her blush this is good. That means your being cute. Girls like cheesy. Just don't milk it too much. Blush>Cute Cheese < Milk= dairy?
5) MOST IMPORTANT: DON'T make a move. Especially on the first couple of dates. That's full blast relationship stuff. It'll make the date less awkward if you're not trying to get a feel or a kiss! She'll feel a lot more comfortable with you and it'll up your chances for a second date.
USE THESE MEN! it may save our gender from being ravenous animals. And with guys acting like this she will have fun and she will be loved.
Also! Chivalry is not dead. It's more like a zombie in the basement of our hearts so learn to be a gentleman. Girls like that too even if they say they don't. But be careful and don't mix chivalry with man pride. Girl wants to open the door let her. But let her sit down first. Etc. Depends on te situation
These tips have been proven to work as I now got the second date so eat it snotty guys who think they've got it down! *raises fist in the air like champion*
P.S. If te dance has no slow songs go to the hospital parking lot after and play one. It's alot more heartfelt and Bonding. Even when office chairs stare at you through the windows. Right bes' frien'? :p
yes, i so agree with this statement.
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